Marriage Solutions

"If you are considering marriage counseling I would not hesitate any longer. Marriage solutions has been a God send. I cannot say enough positive things about Brad. Something that places him above many other therapists is his true passion, dedication and knowledge of what he is doing. He provided us with the tools, information and hope that we needed to move forward. He is very experienced at what he does and has the ability to handle many different dynamics. I encourage every couple who is lost, discontent, hopeless, frustrated or on the verge of giving up to seek the help and wisdom of Brad. It has changed my life and marriage in ways I never dreamed possible. We are forever grateful to you Brad. Thank you everything."

"After 25 years of marriage and parenting, my husband and I had grown apart, each of us heading in different directions. If our marriage was going to be restored, we needed professional help. Brad was instrumental in bringing us back to a place that had become unfamiliar to us-the love and commitment we once shared. He taught us how to communicate on an emotional level instead of the transactional communications we had been using to navigate our days. My husband and I looked one another in the eyes and shared the deep seated hurts, anger and bitterness that had become a wall between us through the years. In our meetings we learned how to communicate without anger. We reminded one another of why we married in the first place and remembered the positive aspects of our 25 year marriage and our beautiful family. We tore down walls and built trust that seemed impossible just months earlier. Brad helped us find our way back to one another and the love we shared so many years ago. If you are willing to do the hard work of saving your marriage and restoring your family, Brad is the very man you need to help you on your way."

"We came to Brad at rock bottom in our marriage. We were desperately trying to survive an affair and even moved from another state to Tulsa in an attempt to end the affair and start over. When the communication with the other woman continued even after we moved, we began seeing Brad. What we found was a safe place to process through the trauma we had experienced. Brad helped us get to the root of the affair and helped us process through what was on our minds and hearts each week. He helped us dig deeper than just the events or the previous 9 months and see triggers and situations that left unresolved where like smoldering coals waiting to ignite into a wild fire. As we became transparent and vulnerable, we began to see each other in a new light and healing began. It was mind boggling how many things we didn't know or understand about each other even after nine years of marriage.There was a point, about midway through our time with Brad, in which we felt like we had met each other for the first time, only better. One thing is both true and very surprising to us, from the very first two hour session to every single once since, we have never left wishing we hadn't had the appointment. We always leave our time with Brad encouraged by the idea of better things ahead. It wasn't a quick fix but instead it was an open process that made us realize it was much better than any quick fix. Over time, we have developed tools we now use every day in our marriage. Brad's instruction and the tools he has given us, have brought us to a place of emotional intimacy we never had in the first nine years of our marriage. To say that Brad is an expert in marriage and emotional therapy isn't a marketing gimmick, it is the absolute truth. We had heart change that wouldn't have come without his gentle yet effective direction and counseling. One of the first things we realized is that Brad has a calling to help marriages and he takes his calling very seriously. From the beginning he made us feel like our marriage was the most important marriage he had ever worked with. The time and money required is more than worth it and has proven to be the best time and money we have ever spent. We plan to continue to see Brad, although less frequently now, because we know our marriage is worth the investment! We also know that our marriage is and will be a priority from now on. Before Brad, we were on a path for history to repeat itself again and again or worse yet, our marriage completely crumbling. After Brad, we are not perfect but we have a new connection that brings us a hope daily for a better marriage and a long future together. Our perspective has changed and we firmly believe that every marriage needs an expert like Brad to speak into it and encourage growth. We can't say enough positive things about our experience."

"Thanks to Brad, my husband and I have found a new emotional intimacy that our marriage lacked for the last 9 years. Thanks to Brad, year 10 has become the best year yet. It isn't magic, it takes work but Brad has given us the tools and confidence to grow and learn so much more about each other. There aren't enough words to express our gratitude for Brad and his gift of helping marriages. Brad is not just "another counselor", he excels in his calling to focus on marriage and we can see his passion each time we meet with him. He offers a safe place to process your struggles. Bringing Brad into our marriage has been a game changer!"

"(I am posting this review my wife wrote, for her, since her college Google e-mail won't let her have a Google Plus Account.) My husband left in early January with every intention of calling it quits. Needless to say, I was devastated. We had our problems, but I didn't think our relationship was beyond repair. I was desperate for a solution, and my husband said we could try counseling and recommended Brad Robinson of Marriage Solutions. My husband was very doubtful that counseling would change his mind, but he at least agreed to go. Brad was very understanding of both sides of the issues at hand and recommend we read a book together along with going to counseling with him every week. Within 7 weeks my husband had a complete change of heart and moved back in. We are still seeing Brad because not everything has been resolved, but without his help we would be signing divorce papers instead of buying a house and planning our future together. Regardless of the monetary cost I tell Brad all the time that what he did for us was priceless and that I am forever indebted to him. If you're in need of an anchor and want to save your marriage, go to Brad! I promise you, you will not regret it!!!! With a million thank yous, Megan"