London uk in Coulsdon

“The beauty of the Grief Recovery Method is that it gives you tools & a structure to use again with whatever is causing you 'grief', be it death, relationships, loss of jobs, health or situation. There's a time frame too, so you know it’s not going to drag on and on with no end in sight, but like all these things you only get out of it what you put in. But with a Grief Recovery Specialist like Joan I knew I was in safe and understanding hands. By sharing her story with me a trust was built that made me feel safe in sharing mine with her. Without her I wouldn't feel at peace with the past as I do now and able to face the future, whatever it brings. For many years I’ve been carrying around grief without realising it; it was only going through this process with Joan that I came to understand the full extent of it. I was introduced to The Grief Recovery Method ostensibly to get over the loss of my one-in-a-million horse, Sparkie, who had died many years ago. I had no concept at the beginning that the method would identify a much bigger issue that I was unaware of, but also give me the tools and the confidence to be able to deal with it. Joan was so understanding and led me gently through the process, supporting me with the ‘relationship-loss’ of Sparkie, so I understood how it all worked, before encouraging me to take on the huge event that had shaped the last 40yrs of my life. She acknowledged that it was going to be a big piece of work for me, but was there at the end of the phone whenever I needed guidance and help to make sure I was on the right track and never made me feel silly or inadequate. The ‘structure’ of the process helped to me to connect with all of the elements of my past that had led to the present day, without judgement or exhaustive dissection. The discussion was more with myself and that gave me carte-blanch to say exactly what was in my heart. I didn't have to sanitize anything, I didn't have to justify my thoughts and feelings, I just had to be completely honest with myself. The only person who heard these thoughts was Joan and she held them safe for me. There was no picking over and examining, just acceptance. To give some context here’s my story … In 1980 I fell 20' during some training in a gym which resulted in a spinal cord injury causing paralysis from my hips down. I was seventeen. I learnt to live with not being able to walk again and having to use a wheelchair all the time, as well as having to manage my personal care in a very different way, and I focused on all the positives I could find; I was still able to drive, work, go on holiday, ride horses, have children ... all be it not as before. However, nothing ever stays the same and the things I initially took for granted have changed over the last 40yrs. My independence is now being stripped away as I get older and things wear out, and my dependence on others seems to be increasing with every year. This bereavement, this loss of the physical me and my independence, has taken a long time for me to acknowledge. I thought I'd dealt with it in my own little way back in the early 80's. I thought I'd come out the other side and was able to get on with my life. I understood what had happened to me back then so why, after all these years, did I find myself in tears and an emotional wreck whenever something else befell me. Because I hadn't dealt with what was underlying it all and allowed myself to acknowledge and grieve properly for what was lost all those years ago. Now, thanks to Joan, I finally feel I’ve been able to do that.”

“I'd been really struggling with a number of issues before I saw Beverley for counselling. She helped me through the tough time, giving me a new way of thinking and the tools to keep me moving forwards. It was a real life changer.”

“My experience with Alison was brilliant! Very good listener, Calm, patient and good at helping you understand problems and helping you understand where the problems may have started. Would recommend to anyone in need of her services. Thank you Alison”

“David is an excellent hypnoterapist. After 3 sessions only I am alive again and free! I am so grateful for that. With an attitude of genuine interest in helping as much as possible. I couldn't recommend him enough! David is a gem. Thanks a lot”

“Easy to contact, fast booking, extremely professional service, very caring and polite. I would certainly highly recommend.”

“Cassie loves her walks with Nikki and the other dogs. We trust her completely, she is very thoughtful, considerate and accommodating. We are so lucky to have found her.”

“Really great day care. Staff are fantastic with the dogs.”

“Would absolutely recommend Demmi to anyone, trusting someone with your dog is a massive deal but there was no doubt as soon as I met Demmi. Nala adores her walks and I always know she will be safe and well looked after. Demmi is easy to get along with and 100% couldn’t say a bad word about the Canine retreat!”

“Very professional accountant, always gives great advice, files everything on time. Highly recommended!”

“I found 247 property solutions very helpful in what we requested and more , good price , clean and helpful with some other issues we had which were not part of his jobs. 10 out 10”

“We had a very pleasant stay in this beautiful villa. It is very well designed and very well equipped. Beds are so comfortable. The location of the house is exceptional, we enjoyed absolute calm. The house is located in a pine forest. We even had the chance to see a family of deer in the garden of the house. We highly recommend this rental which conforms to the description of the owner.”

“Fantastic service ! My drive way is looking as good as the day it was done ! Highly recommend !”

“I received an incredible services. Will use their services again. Thanks so much!”

“Wow! Just wow! From the bouquet to the church flowers to the magical flower installation at the reception venue, my expectations were exceeded. Charlotte worked incredibly hard to make sure the flowers for our wedding day were spectacular!”

“Amazing shop, staff so friendly and very talented at what they do ! I had two tattoos done and I couldn’t be more happier with them Highly recommend !!!”

“Mita is the Queen Of Brows. I've been going to Venus for over three years and wouldn't let anyone else do them! The make up and products are amazing and Mita is so good at explaining how to use them!”

“I had my initial consultation with Naveed in January where we discussed a chronic problem that I had been experiencing for months. He was confident that he could help and made me feel very positive about my situation. 3 months on and I am definitely feeling the benefits of the homeopathic treatment. Naveed made himself contactable and responded to my queries very quickly. I would not hesitate to recommend him, he is very thorough and made me feel more comfortable than most of the doctors I have seen.”

“Came in with my son and was greeted by a lovely woman named Joanna, she sorted all our drinks and food out and made sure we were happy and comfortable the whole time. Was very smiley and chatty and made sure my son was happy and occupied. Very approachable and just and amazing staff member always attentive and gave us incredible customer service. Will definitely come back soon!”

“Very impressed with the time taken to discuss options and outcomes, and very pleased with results! Small, friendly salon, very relaxing.”

“Very pleased to have the waste cleared from the driveway. Scott Burton did an excellent job and was polite and friendly too. Highly recommended.”

“Great local Chinese, we've tried a load in the area and this one is definitely the best. Ordered online and delivered within 30mins on a Saturday night, much faster than expected. We ordered the crispy duck (delicious!), Singapore noodles, King Prawns in ginger and sorting onion, squid, and the broccoli and garlic sauce. Complimentary prawn crackers and some even some spring rolls. Will be returning!”

“Popped in for lunch, place was fairly busy but food was out in good time, and tasted very nice indeed with good portion sizes, there was an array of drinks on offer with a some great ales, the place was very spacious yet warm and inviting, the Manager Geoff and team were very attentive too, look forward to returning”

“A great primary school with nursery and was such a sad thing leaving. Amazing kind teachers and exciting fun sports activities like cricket, football and hockey. Shout-out to Mrs Allen”

“Staff always very polite and helpful, even when there are obnoxious customers in front or behind you in the queue.”

“I bought two teak banana benches , very good service and delivery with good communication and messages on the day when I wasn’t in The products are very good and great price. ( you do need to purchase some teak oil )”

“Good food and service. I order buy the pizza hut app ..polite driver and service.”

“My favourite chicken takeaway in the area. The chicken is always nicely cooked and seasoned, plus their chicken wings are amazing. Great value as well and always happy for my custom.”

“Throughout the shipping process, JPN SHIPPING LTD kept me informed every step of the way. They provided me with tracking information and updates on the progress of my shipment, which gave me peace of mind and helped me plan for the arrival of my belongings.”

“Frances is more than just an accountant. She made me aware of the time I put into work and helped me reevaluate my prices. She completely changed the way I do and think about my business!”