Spilker Funeral Home

"I cannot say enough about the professionalism and compassion of Spilker Funeral Home. They responded quickly to my inquiries and are extremely knowledgable about benefits to assist with costs. When making difficult and emotional decisions they can be trusted to listen and provide much needed guidance."

"There are absolutely no words that adequately express our heartfelt thanks to Dennis for the compassionate care he extended to our family on the passing of our mom. Dennis was available day and night. He always answered our questions and guided us through the entire process in a professional and personal way. We are grateful beyond words that we entrusted our mom to Dennis and his staff. They are doing God’s work! Thank you!"

"Dennis and his team were wonderful. Our family member passed at home. They took great care to take him out of the home with dignity and allowed us to say our final goodbyes. Dennis made planning the service easy. They did a lovely video using photos we sent them. It was so comforting to look up during the viewing and see those pictures. He was such a comfort during a very difficult time. Thank you!!"

"I can't begin to say how grateful and happy I am with having found the Spilker Funeral Home for my Father's memorial service. From the first phone call I had with Dennis Spilker, I knew already that this was going to be the right place. Dennis was beyond a true professional. He is a kind, sincere, and honest individual who not only treated every detail with delicate care and precision, but he took the time to get to know about my Father, the life he lived, the person he was, and how I envisioned his memorial service to be. I was deeply touched by this and will never forget how emotional of an impression Dennis made on me. A special thanks also to Kevin Beare, who created a masterful photo/video tribute of my Father. Your creativity and expertise are outstanding. The funeral home itself has such a rich and unique history, it's architecture is beautiful and the floorspace inside is generous. The entire experience was perfect. I highly recommend you book with Spilker Funeral Home."

"I highly recommend Spilker Funeral Home of Cape May, New Jersey. The winter of 2020 was catastrophic for my family. While visiting my parents in Massachusetts, I had a traumatic accident. Two days later, my beloved mother suffered a major stroke. During my mom’s hospice care, I contacted Dennis Spilker. Dennis empathized with how terrible my situation was. He was generous with his time and was always available to answer my questions, day or night. Dennis patiently listened to me and never rushed me off the phone. I was transported back to New Jersey for surgery and then my mother passed away. I was injured and stricken with grief. Dennis organized careful transport of my mom’s body and was generous with updates. I was overwhelmed with my physical situation and the travel arrangements for my grieving, disabled father. My injuries delayed the funeral by over a week, which added to my father’s devastation. My father sent a rose to the funeral home. Dennis placed it with my mom and promptly sent a reassuring photo to my father. Dennis has so much sensitivity, insight, and respect for the process of losing a loved one. He expertly steered me through the viewing, service, and burial preparations to prevent any timing and financial issues. When I ran into difficulties planning the repast, Dennis helped me find an appropriate and affordable venue. His guidance helped to keep me calm as I balanced my mom’s death with my injuries and grieving father. I wanted my mother’s hair and make-up to look natural. Dennis thoughtfully listened to my descriptions and undoubtedly studied the sample photos I provided. His attention to detail was impeccable. My mom looked beautiful, despite the delay. Every detail of my Mother's service was done with great consideration. Dennis was compassionate about our unusual situation and accommodated us for a late-night, private viewing. Spilker Funeral Home is located in an impressively restored Victorian building with stained glass windows and beautiful woodwork. This inviting, clean, and peaceful setting allowed me to focus on my mother. I cannot put into words the appreciation we have for the exceptional service provided by the staff at Spilker Funeral Home. Everyone, including the limo driver, ushers, and pall bearers, were all professional and kind, which enabled my mother to receive a proper farewell. Dennis Spilker, thank you from the bottom of my heart."